As I said, we’re opting for a quiet time tonight. My friends changed their mind and decided to have their usual NYE bash with a new twist. Instead of everyone bringing food, they want to go out and eat, then afterwards, go to the First Night celebration. Then everyone will go back to their house for dessert. When my girlfriend called to tell me, I politely declined the first two, explaining that my scooter was broken, and I had a hard time dealing with the wheelchair. She still wanted us to come for dessert and New Years champagne toasts. After I finished my luncheon meeting and cleaned up yesterday, I still had to make dinner because my two boys were coming. By evening, I was very tired – cleaning, preparing two full meals, organizing meeting plans, and just the normal daily movements thrown in – well, it made for Exhausted Muff. So when the husband part of my NYE friends called, I also politely declined the whole dessert/champagne invitation. I explained that I was just too tired to do anything, and he was very understanding. I’ll miss being with them (and I think Hubby will really miss the party) but I have to consider the consequences of not listening to my declining body. I think I made the right choice.
As far as New Years – I do not make resolutions. When I was young, I did, but as with many people, I forgot about them and felt badly. So I stopped – and have a different routine now. I merely say that I will try to be a better person than I was last year. Following the old standby Golden Rule, I promise that I will try to treat others as I want to be treated. I will try not to be a whiner when things don’t go as I wanted, and I will try to be a helper when someone needs me. I will try to forgive when I’ve felt slighted, and I will try to ask for forgiveness when I may have inadvertently hurt others. I will try to look after my health, and I will try to make intelligent, informed decisions. I will continue to love my family and friends, and I will try to maintain my present friendships, and possibly add more to that circle. I will try to be a better person, and when I fail, I can at least say I tried.
So, my friends, to all of you, I wish you a 2011 that is filled with all your hopes and dreams. May you be healthier and happier, and may we meet here again during all the days ahead.
A Happy and Peace-Filled New Year – my wish to you!!
Peace,
Muff
